Getting over an ex isn’t always easy. Even as time passes, one may not stop hoping that he will return. But unfortunately, not all love stories have a happy ending, and loving your ex-boyfriend deeply is not enough to be happy with him forever. Below you can find signs and clues that indicate your boyfriend will not come back to you. It can be heartbreaking to accept these things. But it is better to do this than to waste your time with empty dreams and hopes.
1. You were in a toxic relationship
If your relationship brought more stress and headaches than good memories, it’s unlikely he’ll want to get back together with you. If you are aware that you are in a toxic relationship, ask yourself: Would it be wise to wait for him to come running back to you in this situation?
2. There was a painful separation
How did you break up? Have you ever had a breakup conversation that you were both comfortable with? Or did one of you suddenly stop communicating with the other? (Ghosting – ignoring)
If your breakup was very painful, your lover may not want to relive these bad memories, so he may avoid seeing you again.
3. You said very harsh words
If you hurt your boyfriend’s ego by saying very hurtful and humiliating things, you may have pushed him away forever.
4.What happened affected others too
Did your separation hurt others? For example, did it make your family resentful of your ex or angry with you? Has it become a war involving your friends? Things like this make your ex less likely to come back.
5. He said he doesn’t love you anymore
You may prefer to think that his telling you that his love for you is over is the effect of a momentary ambition, but in another possibility, it is a sign that he will never come back.
6. He told you to move on with your life
You made an effort to win him back, but he told you to move on with your life without him. This means he doesn’t want you back, and being too pushy could lead to you hearing more hurtful things.
7. He stopped communicating
If he doesn’t call or text you for weeks or months, take this as a sign that he will walk his way without you by his side. If he still wanted you, he’d be eager to hear your voice once in a while.
8. He ignores your messages
Doesn’t even open your chat messages? He may be pretending he didn’t see them, or maybe he marked them as spam. He’s obviously no longer interested in things coming from you, he doesn’t want to hear them.
9. Their friends ignore your messages too
Have you tried to use his friends as a bridge to reach him but were unsuccessful? Are they avoiding you by ignoring your messages as well? This is probably because they understand that it’s over for your lover.
10. You’ve been blocked on social media platforms
One sign that your ex has ended the relationship is that he or she has blocked you from social media. He doesn’t want to have any contact with you, so he doesn’t want you to follow him.
11. He changed his phone number
If you can no longer reach him on his mobile number, it may be because he does not want you to call him again. This is quite likely, especially if you continued to call persistently, to the extent of harassing him, even though he had made it clear that he did not like it. There’s no point in trying to reconnect with him in this situation.
12. He returned your belongings
If your ex gave back everything you gave him, he may have forgotten about coming back to you. Maybe it’s time for you to give him back his belongings and gifts.
13. Even when something bad happens to you, he doesn’t reach out
If he still cares about you, he can’t resist the feeling of checking in on how you’re doing every once in a while. On the other hand, if you are going through a difficult time due to an accident or illness, but he never calls or comes to visit you, it is time to ignore this relationship completely.
14. Your separation pain doesn’t affect him
If he knows that you are in a terrible situation because of the breakup and still doesn’t communicate or try to support you, there is no going back for him.
15. He shares his new relationship on social media
Does he post about his new girlfriend on platforms such as Facebook and Instagram? If he’s clearly enjoying and proud of his new relationship, he doesn’t care how it makes you feel. It doesn’t matter to him that you will be harmed by such posts.
16. You heard that he is serious in his current relationship
If he reveals his relationship with his new girlfriend and seems intent on continuing that relationship and taking it further, it means it’s time to give up on him completely.
17. He doesn’t care if you’re dating someone else
Have you tried dating someone else to make her jealous and she didn’t react at all? In this case, it is clear that it is not important for him to show off with your new lover. If he cared he would do something to get you back.
18. It’s been a long time since you broke up
Have there been years when he left you? If he disappeared for so long and never came back, don’t expect him to do so anymore. Accept that he has decided to walk his path without you and that the old days you miss will not come back.
19. When he sees you he pretends not to see you
If he completely ignores you when you meet him, this may be because he is trying to appear unaffected by your presence. You may even choose to think that way. However, it could also mean that he doesn’t want anything to do with you again, right?
The signals he gives with his body language when he comes face to face with you are also important. When you approach him, does he seem stiff and ready to flee at the first opportunity? Is his body facing away? Such things are negative signs.
Have you tried locking your gaze with his? If he avoids making eye contact with you or if his eyes look dull and uninterested when he meets your gaze, the spark between you may have faded for him.
20. Disconnected from people around you
Has he unfollowed or otherwise distanced himself from your family members and friends? The reason is most likely that he is no longer in your world and does not want to be associated with you.
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