How aware are we that social media is taking over our reality, dominating everything from our relationships to our social life?
Social media, now in the center of our lives, has become like a kind of parallel universe. We share every moment of ourselves, from the food we eat, to the shopping we do, from the serum given by the doctor to the procedures we make. It is not known how long this madness lasts, but what it is transforming our lives at the moment is not very innocent. In particular, it seriously affects our relationships and even leads to new crises. Social media jealousy comes first. Social media exprets share their opinions on the subject.
The new nightmare of relationships; social media jealousy
Although social media is seen as a very suitable and productive medium to meet and socialize new people, it is obvious that it harms our existing relationships. In particular, it damages women-men relationships. Because before social media is an important part of our lives, while couples usually communicate by phone, the differentiation of communication tools brought digital envy to our lives. In the past, even if couples were jealous of each other, this feeling was tried to hide.
However, today jealousy can cause couples to restrict each other, to argue with each other, and even to end their relationship. Thanks to smart phones, people can talk about themselves wherever they are. Even the place they go, the food they eat, the clothes they wear, and the photos shared can become jealousy among the couples. The reason why people share all this is the desire to be liked and approved.
Research shows that even people with serious relationships meet new people through social media (peer search, dating, friend search sites) and experience dating. The increased time spent in their social networks and the misuse of these channels can cause serious communication or decreased communication among married couples, insecurity, discussions and even divorces. Neuropsychiatric jealousy; excessive ownership and excessive sense of belonging. It is also intense from love and destructive. Healthy jealousy is a warm feeling that should be.
Women’s igital media jealousy is more common
Although couples say that the most important thing in the relationship between men and women is the sense of trust, the spirit of control prevents this idea. Men usually want to know the passwords of their spouses or lovers. Many of the women state that their partners do not look at their friendship with the opposite sex. After the digital media has entered our lives, in the eyes of many couples, the opposite sex is in a potential criminal position trying to get you.
Social media detox is a must
When using social media, virtual communication should not prevent real communication. Social media, which encompasses our daily lives, shadows face-to-face communication. Couples who are caught up in the fun world of social media instead of spending time with each other are moving away from each other and the communication between them disappears.
The best way to solve problems such as jealousy and insecurity is for couples to communicate with each other and spend quality time. Of course, one should not overlook the fact that communication is not just talking but listening. According to experts, such a perspective and attitude is an action that builds relationships, not ruin.
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