Throughout our life, we fall in love, we leave, and then we experience the same things again. Some people enter our orbit, some run and escape, and give us the kind of emotional tides that we would never have thought possible. Each of these experiences is important and even necessary.
1- Fairytale Love
Often, the first love rings our door when we are very young. We think whatever we read in fairy tales, we live. So we think it will continue for life. At this stage, we tend to do what is expected of us one by one. We don’t care about minor problems, we compromise our own character because we believe that somewhere deep, it should be like this. The outward appearance of our relationship becomes more important than what we feel inside. What such a love teaches us is that our view of our partner is at least as important as looking around.
2- Complex Love
The second love of our lives is the most complex love. Since we have learned from our previous experiences, we have full confidence, and this time we are pursuing to choose a completely different partner. Or we think so. We will most likely be used, lied or even hurt. We firmly cling to any attempt to put the relationship on its way, but each attempt results in a greater defeat.
This relationship is a complete drama movie, apart from the occasional bliss of happiness. Once again, our real feelings reveal themselves for something else this time, the infinite steps taken, no matter what the relationship is to end, all the efforts taken… What this love teaches us is that the most beautiful love is mutual.
3- Love of Maturity Period
This third love appears when we stop waiting now. As if it was not enough to come out when it was not expected, it does not fit the definition of true love in our minds. It’s not perfect, but it’s really a relationship. Everything progresses from the beginning to the end with a series of convenience, which is almost impossible to describe.
At this stage of life, we no longer expect anybody. We do not want to spend time on what a person called the love of our life should have. So, we are ready to accept our partner as he is and love him as he is. More importantly, the partner sees and accepts the other side exactly like this. What such a love teaches us is that true love does not need to be perfect.
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