Today, relations are superficial and consumption-oriented; When two people have relationships through social media, sometimes they don’t come together for months, as if everything is unreal, or they think they are.
The definition and content of the relationship term is rapidly changing or updating, the most real moments are the hours you have spent together and the memories you have accumulated; however, many people have agreed to have a relationship with the phone screen and do not realize that this is actually a strange situation.
In all this mess, the real face of the person you are with; So it is perhaps the greatest luxury to understand whether you are sincere in your relationship. What is the way to understand this?
First of all, some people don’t even want to know the true face of the person they’re in a relationship with; because in the stress of daily life they seek only an escape route; they have no idea but to move to a different feeling, to experience new excitement with a person, and to experience new experiences in life. Therefore, the character of the person they are with, the sides they do not show or their attitudes do not concern them at all because they have no plans to extend this relationship; they only try to feel good for a while by getting rid of their mood and the excitement they will get from a person. They have a relationship to distract or distract, which is of course a choice.
On the other hand, there are innumerable people who suddenly become serious in such a relationship and find themselves in a spontaneous marriage; these people who enter the way of marriage while only chasing pleasure, encounter and be surprised by the true face of their spouse during marriage.
However, everything is clear at the stage of the relationship; the only problem is that they are looking away at that stage, ignoring the signals and continuing their relationship with pleasure. So what are these signals? What steps do you understand the true face of a man in a relationship with a woman?
1- Are your partner there when you need him/her?
Your boyfriend/girlfriend usually calls you home or comes to your home. You’re having a good time together, but there’s a problem that she doesn’t prefer meeting outside and your relationship is becoming sexually focused. This is already a bad signal in itself, because it may be the sexual life that she shares with you. Let’s not forget that girls; to the extent that a man reduces outside contact, the relationship becomes sexual.
Outside interviews and sexuality continue there, you can understand that he cares about you and that he enjoys spending time with you outside of sexuality. If negotiations are diminishing outside, you should reduce sexuality at the same rate and stop saying yes to his home invitations every time. Beyond that, let’s say you need one; For example, your car broke down and you consulted him, he was not interested and passed on the subject, he did not even give you an idea about it, “Go do it yourself, I do not have time to help you” reacted. In this case, if you continue to say yes to him and his constant indifference to his indifference, know that this man will soon get you out of his life; because you are in your pocket now and it is very close to get bored.
2- Your ex is always looking for you and annoys you, but your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t interfere, but why?
In that case, you must understand that the man has no serious plans for you. He doesn’t think seriously, and it doesn’t even matter if you’re disturbed by your ex. He doesn’t care enough to show you the slightest attitude. Normally, when a man has serious feelings for a woman, he embraces it and it means protecting him, helping him when he needs it.
If you are silent to your ex-boyfriend’s calls or messages while you are with him, the only purpose of this man who says he is in love with you is to disappear after a while (sexuality) with you for a while, he has no middle or long-term goals for you, so it is difficult to solve problems or intervene. he never thinks. What he normally needs to do is to give him a polite tone of information about your new life as a partner with your ex-lover, and he should take the man away, because he owns and protects you. If he doesn’t, you’re hard to work with.
3- How does he/she treat you when you feel bad?
In our society, women are the most afflicted men: narcissistic men. There are so many of them that every corner of the women’s criticism about these men are rising. I encounter these cases every day in individual studies. These men are in no way interested in how the woman feels, and even when the woman feels ill, they accuse her of being weak, of willlessness, or of being overly touchy, and they go even further.
It is clear that these behaviors have an unhealthy psychological background, but if you have such a boyfriend, you cannot change it, so don’t waste time trying to change or heal it. All you have to do is get away from this guy quickly; because if there is a fear of losing, there is a possibility that you may start to claim more, if your indifferent and rude behavior towards you continues, know that he is not interested in your bad days, only when you are good, that is, when you make him feel good. So there is no room for your feelings, so there is no room for you in fact.
4- How does he/she react to you when he/she says no?
The easiest way to understand the true face of the person you’re in a relationship with is to say no. When you don’t accept some of your requests and you easily answer “no ona, you slowly begin to see her real face. In addition, you understand whether the relationship you have had an interest relationship, if you have an interest with you at the moment when you say no, you will be away from you and leave you to find another woman to take advantage of.
Even in this case, some women are willing to meet the man’s wishes and even give them more than he wants to avoid losing the man. Let’s say habit, fear of losing or fear of loneliness; however, for whatever reason, these behaviors do not bring it back to you. If a person you do whatever you want disappears at the moment you say no, it’s time to end this relationship; don’t make yourself more used. In fact, all the attention, relevance, and false love he showed you was for this benefit. The truth hurts, I’m sorry.
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