In fact, the seeker does not coincide with the seeker. The feeling of ownership of those who feel weak, who want to be protected, and who want to be back, absolutely crosses the path with the overdeveloped.
The basic rule is: what we find, who we seek. But that’s not what I mean: it’s because we deserve to be with someone who’s trying to have it. I mean, trying to have it, it’s an inevitable struggle that results in frustration.
They have samples. Let’s look at no one’s life, but our own. How many of us didn’t believe that people who loved us? We did not think that the boundaries that he drew and imprisoned us and the obstacles he put in front of us were love. And then how many of us didn’t start to feel like we were bored with belts, like all the windows were closed, airless, we wanted to move, but we couldn’t move? How many of us have not embraced us with the desire to escape from what makes life narrow to us? And we didn’t run?
It’s nice in the beginning of the relationship. Wherever you are, you’re taking pictures of whoever you are. You’re reporting coordinates. You’re giving it. Long skirts and knees away from the skin surrounding the blouses are worn next to him. He can call his phone at any time. He doesn’t want anyone to talk to. The idea of not being friends of the opposite sex is considered indisputable. When did you say, “Where did you look?” “Who did you look at?” “Why did you look so long?” ”Did you like it too?” starting. Fights become increasingly intolerable and separation is inevitable.
The seeker of a owner acknowledges that, although not immediately after he has severed his collar, he sooner or later acknowledges that the problem is actually in him, and that he is the one who allows such intervention. However, there is not much change in the owner side.
He doesn’t think there is a problem in himself, as he applies the feeling of over-developed property to people. Or he sees his mistake as power, not a problem. He describes all his behavior as a show of power and is satisfied.
The truth is that trying to adopt stems from the difficulties that the proprietor is experiencing within himself. It is not from his love for him that he takes the other, like the goods he pays for and receives or finds on the way. Mostly, the lack comes from the fear of losing caused by the feeling of inadequacy, the belief that orum I don’t deserve,, that is, jealousy. Three of these are brothers. Orum I don’t deserve him, and the moment he understands it, he’s gone. Then I have to act early and take measures to keep it with me. ”Selfishness is fueling the sense of ownership. “Always to me, always to me, again to me.” “It will always be the way I want it, everything, everyone.”
But trying to own or having temporary ownership has some natural consequences. Nobody likes to restrict their freedom. He doesn’t want to be used like merchandise. He denies any infinite claim. At least he senses a difference between being loved and all this. He no longer loves his “owner.. His love and power for him evolve into hate. He’s liberating himself. It’s called separation.
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