Mothers sometimes ask for solutions to their children’s problems. School indifference, disobedience, failure, spoiled, introverted, unwanted behavior and so on…
When the conversation goes a little deep, unfortunately, it becomes convincing: “The children are really enduring. Sometimes they can take such a mature attitude that they listen to their parents, understand and guide them and try to prevent the breakup of the nest like a psychologist.”
In fact, the situation is very simple. A five-year-old doesn’t want to leave his mother or his father. Whoever he can make his word bow to it. “Mommy, if you love me, don’t leave my father!” she begs.
An adolescent son can take both of them and shout, “If you’re going to leave, look at both of you, or you don’t know me.” It is a shame for people who know themselves to hear such words from their children. And certainly, and the opposite party is guilty, he is innocent.
Without realizing it, they make a decision: ım I am a divorce. Man dreams of ideal marriage and marriage in a short time, women find a job and stand on their own feet, that is to establish independence fantasies stops. The process has now begun. Just like a scientist, all processes taking place in the home are memorized as evidence to support such judgments.
When the separation takes place and comes to fruition (!), It is experienced that the resulting painting is a very favorable ground for serious mental depression and illnesses, rather than making people unhappy and that the problems of the first are sufficient to make people unhappy despite the second marriages.
Good thing it’s a “fate” consolation! Otherwise, the press comes from stone to stone.
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