Don’t be happy to hear these words.
Let’s say one day your lover “I’m jealous of the death,” he said. If you hear this and say, “Hooray, he loves me very much, I am my dear gerekiyor. Although we like the idea of being jealous, it can reach dangerous dimensions when it is overloaded. Of course, the same danger continues if we are jealous. This condition is called Othello Syndrome. Now let us explain in detail why it is said so.
In its simplest form, Othello Syndrome means pathological jealousy. It is named after Shakespeare’s important works “Othello”. For those who do not know, Othello thinks that his wife is cheating on him because of jealousy, and as a result he kills his wife and he himself inhitar. Severe pathological jealousy accompanied by delusions about his wife’s infidelity has reached its most dangerous and serious point.
When you read Othello’s story, you may have asked the question, “Doesn’t man jealous of what he loves?. Psychologists tell you: “Jealousy is a feeling, and as with any emotion, sometimes it is necessary and natural for one to protect his or her‘ self ‘. A healthy individual can control his sense of jealousy; it can even be motivating in these situations. But not because he likes people; he is jealous because he has feelings like dislike, loss, insecurity, failure. These negative emotions, on the other hand, often come from the person’s self-insecurity, not from love.
The famous philosopher Descartes says: ‘Jealousy is a kind of fear that arises from the desire to protect what you have. Elbette Of course you cannot own the person in your life, what you have is your feelings and the anxiety of losing them. This does not mean that the freedom of the partner should be intervened. Even when he interferes with his partner’s living space, one can turn his fear into reality and become the executioner of the relationship.”
If you notice, the situation is quite serious and scary. That’s why we read news about many women who have been subjected to violence and even killed. Moreover, such feelings may not be related to economic freedom or intellectual level. It can be seen in people who have barely completed primary school as well as people who have completed their master’s and doctoral degrees. It is difficult to explain this with the level of education tutmak The best thing is to keep jealousy as low as possible, and to keep jealousy behind the, I love it ”case and not to exaggerate it, to live that feeling.
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