The first date is one of the meetings in which people will see themselves for the first time and the two will make an appointment. Please note that this is not a marriage interview. If you are open-minded at the first date, your perspective on relationships may also change. So, what happens at the first date?
Say “Yes” rather than “No”
Try to get to know people before you make certain judgments. Instead of approaching appointments as good or bad, enjoy each one and have fun. If you look at the flirt as a task, you will be treated as a colleague. Lower your expectations and observe what will happen. An appointment does not mean a relationship. Relationships are created, not found. Probably only a few of your first appointments will result in a second appointment. But that doesn’t mean you failed. So step up and enjoy.
Make a profile that is funny instead of perfect
Be reasonable when specifying the features you are looking for, only those features that are absolutely unacceptable to you (such as not wanting children).
Keep these questions in mind when you meet
Do I like this person? Is there any shooting between us? What else do I want to know about you? What are the promising or discouraging spots? If you like your answers to these questions, go on your second appointment. And use the same method to determine the third on your second appointment.
Don’t take your personal rejection
If someone disappears after the first appointment, it gives you an idea of his personality rather than you. If this is a game based on numbers, you don’t always have the winning hand. But you can always play again.
Go for coffee without prolonging online correspondence
Finally, drinking coffee is a good suggestion because it is time-consuming, budget-friendly and made outdoors. Keeping online communications short makes it easy for you to stay on the road if you can’t get electricity.
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