Fake orgasm. When examined in terms of gender roles, it is unfortunately true that women fake orgasms during sex. Although this imitation, which is usually done to make the partner not feel bad, seems ‘innocent’ at first glance, it can be said that after a certain point, this behavior becomes a habit for most people.
If you are wondering about the answers to questions such as ‘What causes imitation of orgasm or what should we do if we cannot really orgasm?’, we recommend that you continue reading the article without slowing down.
How does a natural orgasm manifest itself?
When we start the topic, we can start talking about the definition of orgasm so that there are no questions left in your mind. Orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal, the physiological manifestations of which are described in detail in the medical literature. When the symptoms of orgasm were examined, it was seen that when the pleasure was at its highest, the eyes were closed, the neck was bent and the head was thrown back slightly. More specifically, just like in times of severe pain, the face becomes red, the pupils become smaller, and the mouth may become distorted.
Another characteristic difference is the jarring twitching of the arm and leg area due to vaginal wall contractions, which are among the normal reactions. If you are reading this article to understand whether your partner has an orgasm, you should know that your partner cannot immediately run to the sink after a real vaginal orgasm. While it takes a few minutes to recover and get up after orgasm, we should also point out that only 30% of women experience real orgasm.
What can inhibit arousal?
You should know that women may not experience orgasm for both objective and subjective reasons. Here are some of the common reasons: Not having an orgasm is understandable if you are too tired, experience pain instead of pleasure during sex, or feel unwell due to psychological depression. In this case, starting treatment is actually the most logical decision to make, regardless of the problem in question. The thought ‘I can imitate it this once’ does not solve the problem; on the contrary, this thought can cause you to become a habit.
The inability to be psychologically comfortable is another obstacle to arousal. If you are afraid of pregnancy or infection, you should discuss this problem openly with your partner and decide on possible solutions.
Another obstacle to orgasm may be the inconsistency of sexual fantasy between you and your partner. In this case, we recommend that you talk openly with the other person as a solution. Remember, sex is an action that should be enjoyed by both parties.
What causes imitation of orgasm?
Showing off and imitation not only lead to sexual dissatisfaction, but also lead to physiological and psychological problems if they persist. Due to human nature, both parties need to feel relaxed after sex. When sexual intimacy ends with orgasm, high amounts of serotonin and dopamine are secreted, thus a feeling of peace and tranquility emerges and the body relaxes.
Unfortunately, it is true that in the scenario where orgasm does not occur, emotional and physiological tension continues in the body. When sex ends, the woman enters a much more tense and conflicted mood instead of relief, and cannot understand the reason for this negative attitude in her body. In general, in a scenario where this insincere position that occurs during sex becomes permanent, it causes one party to become depressed and constantly question themselves because they do not enjoy sex.
If we look at the medical consequences of faking orgasm, we must state that the picture is not very bright. First, faking it can lead to gynecological diseases and hormonal disorders. The cells that rush to the pelvic organs during arousal come out in a healthy way when orgasm occurs. At the point where this scenario does not occur, cells that have a bad effect on tissues and trigger chronic diseases and inflammation unfortunately cannot find a way out.
Finally, you should know that faking orgasm also negatively affects hormonal levels. While the body, which is exposed to endorphin surge, has to rebuild many things, the balance of chemical processes in the body is disrupted and causes depression.
What should you do instead of fake orgasm?
Theatrics during sex are a clear sign that partners are not actually confident. From an emotional perspective, faking orgasm is a cause for fear of losing your partner or anxiety for showing that your partner is different from the people you have been with before.
First, we recommend talking honestly about sex with your partner. How can you be satisfied if you hide your true feelings from your partner? You must understand your own desires and explain to your partner what truly brings sexual satisfaction. Instead of talking about this issue openly, if you expect your partner to discover this during intercourse in order to create extra adrenaline during sex, you should know that if this expectation does not come true, sex will not go beyond one-sided relaxation. However, if you feel shy when talking about this subject, you can shed light on your partner’s path of discovery by guiding him through role-playing games.
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