A happy sexual life plays an important role in the happiness of couples. That’s not what we say, experts say. What does a happy sexual life mean? The basis of happy sexual life is through correct and strong communication. Can you communicate successfully in your sexual life? Let’s find the answer together.
The secret of strong communication in sexual life is directly proportional to the fact that the parties feel safe both emotionally and physically. The person who is sure that he will not be judged about his sexual knowledge, fantasies and wishes feels safe. If one cannot feel safe in these matters, he / she cannot be open enough to his / her partner.
Keep in touch in your daily life
In order to establish a good communication in your bedroom, you need to have strong communication with your partner in your daily life. It is also very important that you use a positive language in your communication.
If you only communicate with your partner in the bedroom, if your communication is not very close in your routine life, we can say that you have no chance of succeeding in sexual communication.
You need to express your feelings to your lover, share positive things and appreciate them. But expressing only positive things will lead to insincerity after a while. At the same time, negative emotions and resentments that are thrown in and not shared cause the couples to get away from each other.
Leave a comment, give feedback
Giving feedback about what you like during a relationship, whispering love words in your partner’s ear, telling your partner how good you are after making love, and implicitly referring to your special moments during an unexpected day of the day reinforce sexual communication.
Body language is more important than you think
One of the important elements of strong communication is body language. Even when we never speak, we continue to give messages with our body language. This situation does not change in sexuality. Especially touching is of great importance. While men can easily be stimulated by visual materials, women are more stimulated by touch. The arousal has a huge impact on the pleasure of sexual intercourse and having an orgasm. However, touching should not be limited to genital organs. The ear lobe, upper inner leg or neck are also open to stimulation.
Another important point is that the act of touch should not be done only during sexual intercourse. Otherwise, all touches may be perceived as invitations to sexual intercourse, which may cause couples to avoid touching them. Sitting close to each other while resting and being in contact, holding hands, touching the partner’s face while talking, taking a shower together are some of the ways to keep the relationship alive.
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