Here are the five languages of love.
While you are waiting to hear words of love, your partner may be talking about the changes he has made in his car. In fact, sharing his favorite things with you is also a sign that he is in love with you. He just speaks a different love language than you expected. So how do you understand your partner’s love language? Here are some tips to help you.
In fact, the love language is exactly what it sounds like. So it can also be called the way you communicate to show that you love someone. For some people, that means “I love you”. But others show their love instead of saying it. Relationship experts state that you need to know your own love language and your partner’s language in order to communicate effectively. When you speak in your partner’s love language, they can truly hear you and feel important. Here are tips on how to understand your love language and the language your partner speaks that can help your relationship last a lifetime.
Author of The 5 Love Languages, Dr. According to Gary Chapman, if your way of expressing love is to whisper sweet words in your ear or if you tend to give compliments, then your love language is “words of affirmation.” Other love languages are more about showing someone how you feel than telling them. Helping fix your car or bake a cake means “acts of service”. Hugs and kissers speak the language of “physical touch”. If you’re inclined to give special gifts just because you speak the “gift-receiving” love language. Finally, those who speak the “quality time” love language simply mean those who value spending time together.
Once you understand what your own language is and compare it to your partner’s language, you can begin to understand the patterns in your conflicts. Suddenly, “You didn’t take out the trash!” “You do not love me!” he may say. And “You hate my new haircut” means “I need you to tell me you think I’m beautiful” for the lover who needs words of affirmation.
“Change the perception of why the person isn’t showing you the right love by wondering how you can learn to better communicate your needs. When conflict arises, ask, ‘How do you feel most loved?'” licensed psychologist Jennifer Rhodes told the Elite Daily. “It’s time to ask the question and be ready to listen.”
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