Marriage does not diminish love if the necessary conditions are met, but strengthens it further. In order for the love between the spouses to continue after marriage, individuals must have reached a certain maturity both spiritually and physically.
According to experts, many internal and external factors positively and negatively affect the relationship between peers and their love for each other. Marriage, contrary to popular belief, delays the end of love. What happens together keeps love alive. However, the biggest mistake of spouses is that they think that love will continue without any effort with marriage.
Some men come to the house on time, meet the needs of the house is enough to show love to the wife. Some women likewise consider cooking good food, keeping the house tidy as a show of love, and complaining that there is no response. However, as much as they are done, the words and behaviors spoken are important.
Things that are done by acting irrelevant or saying and making bad words lose their value and are not perceived as expressions of love, even though they are done with love. In many instances, we see that feeling sweetness and increasing excitement will be enough to remind the spouses of a few memories, a few words of appreciation, and a few words of appreciation.
Factors reducing love between spouses
The reduced anxiety of losing the opposite side and the sense of ownership diminishes one’s anxiety and efforts to connect the loved one. Relationships can become monotonous.
The first excitement and love prevent seeing human flaws. When the negative traits occur in marriage, this leads to a decrease in love.
Negative interpretations of family members and people in the neighborhood cause the love between the spouses to decrease or feel less.
Various sources of stress, economic difficulties, health problems, and excessive fatigue cause changes in the body chemistry of individuals, resulting in less production of hormones that stimulate love.
Spouses’ responsibilities, hormonal changes negatively affect mood and body health as well as emotions and behaviors.
The arguments or the absence of arguments prevent spouses from hearing and expressing love.
Spend time together
Spouses should spend enough time with each other, if possible, should go on holiday together for a short time, should spend some time alone, even for a few hours, chat, without being told, should blame each other to talk. Love; gifts, beautiful words, a meal prepared with labor and pleasure, dessert, time spent together and the work should be expressed in different ways, such as the expectations of the opposite sex should be given.
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