Flirting is the first step to getting a date with that special guy. However, may school girls do not have an intuitive knowledge of how to flirt or proper etiquette and flirting techniques. Flirting is not a science nor should it be a complicated procedure. Flirting is supposed to be fun and is used to spark up potential romance using inside jokes, innocent innuendos and charming occurrences.
Don’t Forget Smiling
A boy will never know if you are in to him if you never flash him a glimpse of those pearly whites. Smiling is essential to the flirting process. In fact, you could say that it is the first step to starting a flirtatious relationship. It is also the easiest way to find out if a boy likes you too. If he smiles back or appears bashful, you can assume that he is having the same ideas. A smile is the spark that will light the fire under a potential relationship.
Dress to Impress
This doesn’t mean that you have to wear your Sunday finest, but put on something that lets him know that you want to appear attractive to him. However, do not wear something that is skimpy or too revealing or else he will get the wrong idea about what you are looking for. Wear nice clothes that are form fitting and cover everything up. Flirting is about measuring attraction between you and him. Just don’t be caught in your sweats or in a ratty T-shirt when you are around him.
A brief brush along the arm or a pat on the chest is a great way to let him know that you are interested. Listen to what he says when he is telling a joke and use the punch-line as an opportunity to laugh and innocently brush him on the hand. This will let him know that you are interested in more than just his jokes and that you are easy to talk to. Again, do not go too far; after all, it is “innocent” touching.
When flirting, do not try to be something that you are not just to impress him. You do not want to get involved with a boy that will not like you for who you are rather than who you are around him. Do not pretend to like all of his favorite shows or his favorite genre of movies just because you want to go on a date with him. Make him fall for you, not for a clone of him.